The Best Approach

Kidlive · Joined: 01 Jan 1970 Posts: 22

The best approach is to NOT approach. Say you are in a bar; (don't get drunk - for that matter don't drink - After all your ultimate goal is to get 'her' correct??.. Gte to busines first nd learn this one until it become secodn nature -becasue it WORKS!...Alrighty then? With me? - Do this: Make sure she knows you saw her as she walked in the room or visa versa. Do so by eye contact. Only a 'split-second -but deep her soul look (not like 'Charles Manson, you know as if you noticed her in a different way than lets say; 'tonight's quest'.) But make sure YOU turn your head (eyes) away FIRST! like you didn't even notice... When you turn your head - don't go left or right - Go down her body then either way turn your head.. She knows you saw her, checked her out, then bailed once you saw the whoel package...NOW --let every other guy drual and do not let her catch you looking again. Let her come to you. If she doesn't don't worry (you just did it to 10 other girls -one of them will approach you!. Let her come, keep the control and conitnue this attitude until you are done with her (or worse yet get married!)

Now --if none of the 10 girls came to you - Then I suggest you Ask the ugliest one if she would like to Fly with you to Virgin Islands tonight becasue you need to balance out the weight of your Private Leer Jet as you are flying alone tongiht and you would greatly appreciate her help in you not crashing into a building while its dark out. And by all means gentlemen -Do not forget your Captains hat..The ladies really Like the ones from Virgin.

What? You got a better way? Speak up Guru boy.

SixPackAbsAttack · Joined: 01 Jan 1970 Posts: 1

i agree with that except the part of the eye contact. have her break eye contact first as to say "I AM BETTER THAN YOU" its the alpha male way. If you break eye contact first you're showing her she's got control. Never let her think she's in control.

my 2 cents.

richierich1 · Joined: 01 Jan 1970 Posts: 2

That eye contact thing is great, however you guys get too wrapped up in details. Lighten up people....have fun

Who breaks eye contact first really doesn't matter in the vast configuration of things. Eye contact is important....but not looking back again will make her feel like crap...correct me if I'm wrong girls.

If you really like her make eye contact a few more times and smile...based on her reaction you will find out how she feels about you.
If you get a favorable reaction just walk up to her and tell her, "What do you say we blow this popstand" and smile...girls don't like grumpy manson psycho types.

Just make sure you have a cool place in mind to take her or an activity planned, depending on the type of girl she is. The one's that will just jump in the back seat of the car with you right away are not the one's you really want to be serious with anyway because they will do the same thing with any other guy...watch out